My life is about to change. A LOT. I’ve been in Miami for 5 years and my boyfriend has been in Miami almost his whole life. We have both been itching to get out and experience living in a different (read: cheaper!!) city. When we are ready to buy a house there is NO WAY Miami would be an option. I am from Dallas and recently found out my grandmother’s health is not in great condition, so we saw this as a perfect opportunity to not only move over there to spend time with family, but as a stepping stone to save money for our future house. All of this has happened rather quickly, and the moving process is well underway.
But this is not the point of this post. As I have been packing up my apartment, I have been reflecting on just how much STUFF I have. Clothes, shoes, and jewelry that I never wear. Hair products and makeup that I never use. Kitchen tools that I don’t need. Books I bought six years ago and never “got around” to reading. This list of utterly useless junk that I haven’t touched in over a year (or in some cases years) is endless. It is simply not necessary for me to move halfway across the country with all of these material things that are not of use to me. What’s more, what if they would be USEFUL to someone else? Someone in need who hasn’t been as fortunate as me to be able to mindlessly buy a pair of high heels from Target??? High heels which were worn NOT EVEN ONCE.
All at once the realization hit me that all of these things aren’t just creating clutter in my physical space, but in my mental space as well. Having more clothes just means more laundry which means more stress. Unnecessary clutter barrages our mind with stimuli and makes relaxation more difficult. I’ve been at work the last few days and just trying to mentally sort through all of the crap I have to literally sort through has been causing me anxiety.
I have spent years collecting things, following the misconception that more stuff equals more happiness. But this is just NOT TRUE. It is not the new dress or the new pair of earrings that will make you happy. The memories you create whilst wearing those items will do more for your life satisfaction than the dress or earrings ever will.
The more I box up things to give to those in need, the lighter and more mentally clear I feel. I don’t need all these things. Getting rid of these things is allowing those that are truly important to rise to the surface. I’m not saying you have to literally throw away all your clothes, but if you haven’t worn something at least 2 or 3 times throughout the last year, I promise you can live without it. I challenge you to undergo a round of spring cleaning, revisit your closet, your kitchen, your life. Eliminate those things which are not essential and make room for things that matter more. Make more room for new clothes, new friends, new experiences.
Get rid of the unnecessary and “It is astounding what will flow into that space that will enrich you, your life, and your family.”